This week in history: November 19-November 27

December 20, 1843 letter from Mary Campbell to her cousin and sister in law Virginia Campbell.  This letter was chosen for the week of Thanksgiving because Mary talks about having Thanksgiving just a few days before Christmas!  Apparently, Mary thought the Philadelphians were rather stuffy on Thanksgiving – “We have Thanksgiving  tomorrow – everybody must go to Church.  They are trying to make  it a strictly religious festival, not a nice merry-making time as in good New England.”

How times have changed!  Thanksgiving has not only been moved from December to November, but it’s gone from a religious holiday to one of family celebration, big helpings of turkey, the Macy’s Thanksgiving Day Parade, football.  But throughout history, Thanksgiving has been about counting your blessings.  Happy Thanksgiving from Campbell House Museum!

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Mrs. Robert Campbell –
Saint Louis –
Missouri –

Philadelphia Dec. 20th / 43
My dear Virginia
I have been particularly anxious to write you since the  receipt of you very kind + interesting letter.  There is a  subject therein mentioned upon which I wish to give my advice.   You seem to think it absolutely necessary for you to be at  housekeeping before we go to St. Louis.  Now I think this  entirely wrong + I hope you will not attempt it.  In the first  place the season would be the very worst in the whole year.  The  most stormy + inclement requiring all the winter comforts &  before you can at all enjoy them, summer comes on + then it is so bad a time for providing for your table, you could not at all do justice to your culinary talents.  Seriously Virginia I think  the early spring a most unprofitous time for beginning so  serious a task as housekeeping must at all times prove.  And you  know your mother thinks the Planters Houses would suit me a great deal better.  We would you know be just as much at home with you + Robert + the children + then we could see all the world then  besides + then later in the spring when I return from visiting  all my people, let us then have the pleasure of assisting you in  getting all things ready.  If you do not take my advice in this  matter I will be quite offended _ not stop at your fine house at  all in St. Louis, but go straight on to Jefferson City – after  taking a peek at James + Hugh.

[Pg. Break] We were all deeply deeply grieved for the  situation of our kind friend Mr. John Kerr.  Robert’s letter to  our house yesterday announced the hopelessness of his disease –  how unexpected to his family this must be – what a change a few  months has produced.  the husband has taken the dying wife’s  place + she is restored to health, at least your write as if she  were again in good health.  He is happy + resigned, that is the  only comfort left his friends – his death you + Robert will  sincerely lament I know + all that knew him well will mourn for  him, for he was a good man.  How much I will miss him when I go  to St. Louis, for I knew him longer & liked him better than any  one else there except our own.

Christmas is almost upon us, + I have done nothing for it  except make some mince meat.  I will give very few presents for  my money always runs short a the close of the year + I do not  expect any for myself – all our gift-givers are married + away.   Your husband was more famous in this like than any one else +  most of our presents went with him.   We have Thanksgiving  tomorrow – everybody must go to Church.  They are trying to make  it a strictly religious festival, not a nice merry-making time as in good New England.

We were all at Tom Smith’s wedding last week – he married  Miss Leiper – we took Archie + John Miller in the carriage with  us, their wives were not able to go.  Mrs. Archie’s infant too  young + Matilda suffering from severe cold.  We went to John  Leiper’s, then dressed + drove over a mile to the brides father’s where 150 friends were assembled.  We had a very pleasant time,  plenty of eating & drinking – no dancing.  The bride is a very  sweet lovely girl – Tom is most fortunate in

[Pg. Break] getting such a wife.  Elizabeth Lapsby was also  married to a Mr. Willson – she had a very gay wedding I am told + has had a great many parties given to her.  It is like taking  Meg’s head off to get her to go any of them – I’ll give her up as a bad job.

As to news, I fear I have not a word.  Mr. & Mrs. McConley  are coming on to spend Christmas – she is following your example  for little Sophy Mouyes [?] is now very sick with intermitting  fever.  I trust the dear little creature will be well soon.  Mrs.  Zucker has been very sick for a week past with severe cold –  every body has the influenza.  Matilda Miller looks very badly +  always complains,  I think if she had a child she would be well  enough, but there is no prospect yet.  Mrs. Baker is better + is  able to come round + spend evenings with us again.  Harriet  Oakman is as strong + well as any one.

I have not written your mother for a long time, but will  soon.  i have heard from all my own family recently.  Mr. Clark  says the kindest things of you & your children.  Tell Robert we  have all been quite amused at the Irish gentleman that has been  flourishing in all our papers.  Mr. Tagert thinks he will hardly  speak to us ow he has become so distinguished a personage + so  Sir William Stewart has become Earl of Losh [?] will he receive  an accession of fortune with the title.

Little Robert Campbell is coming to spend the day with us,  he has been very delicate + I almost fear will soon follow  Callender.  I have to take him to a fair to buy some things + I  must make one as two visits.  The Millers, Oakmans & all drink  tea with me to night.  I wish you + yours could be with us at  Christmas.  You have at least our best wishes for happiness +  many returns.

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Give my kindest love to that Irish gentleman.  A thousand  kisses to Jem + the baby  + regards to all friends, particularly  the Kerrs.  Meg of course sends oceans of love to all – she will  write you soon.  Your cousin as ever
Mary Campbell.

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2 thoughts on “This week in history: November 19-November 27

  1. Megan says:

    I had quite forgotten how bossy Mary could be, and I highly enjoyed this letter, which I did not remember at all. I especially loved her mention of Virginia’s culinary talents! How could I have missed that?

    I still wish I could edit these letters…… that is a long-distance project I would really enjoy if I could get started. 🙂

    MM

  2. Thanks Megan! Yeah Mary’s definitely a character – there must be something with the Kyle women that they don’t have a problem telling it like it is :-). We’re so glad to have avid readers, especially those that know the family like you – enjoy!

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